Then maybe they should learn more and not let you think they are equipped for it if they aren't. When someone in your life is sick, you take a back seat to help them. I'd move worlds for Andi if I could and thought it would help her. Sometimes what they need isn't that big. Sometimes, it's all the little things that matter. No, I mostly just write about it in a journal to get it out of my head. Because it was, um, my first kiss and I know, that's awkward and embarrassing. My first kiss was a prank mistletoe kiss, set up by a 5 year old.