095.5 - Ten Things I Love About My Relationship

[miss_bliss]

1. I don't have to hide who am. Sam knows the absolute worst of what I have done and still loves me anyway.
2. We are different but complementary.
3. We are passionate. Being without each other physically hurts and it's not one sided. He fell apart just as badly without me as I did without him.
4. Sam has a way of making every holiday special and about family.
5. He is my family and I am his.
6. We do get jealous over each other but not to the point that we can't joke about epic bromances and running off to Vegas for a quickie wedding with my closest girlfriend.
7. That even though I've never really had a desire to have children and Sam won't push if that never changes, he said that he would be down with starting a family with me.
8. Breakfast in bed is not uncommon in our house and Sam makes a mean cup of coffee.
9. We actively try to help each other with our problems or overcoming fears.
10. The sex. I either had to mention it first or save the best for last though I'm thinking now that it should have been mentioned more than once. I have spent more than half of my life cultivating certain skills but Sam is by far the most selfless lover I have ever had. He has spent endless hours, whole weekends, just exploring me until he learned every moan and whimper, every spot and kink that I have. Well, almost every kink. I like to think there is still a little mystery left to solve but still. His devotion to learning everything about me inspired me to want to do the same thing back. Now, after almost a year, we know each other so well that the sex is phenomenal. Even better than the excitement of when it was new.

Comments

WHERE IS THAT THREAD!?

[sam_k_roth]

Yes, I remember. Is this you saying we should hold off having sex until we're married?

[miss_bliss]

Whoa. That is NOT what I said. We don't get married for like a year. A year?! [She stops and thinks about it.] do you think we really could?

[sam_k_roth]

First of all, I was never the one that said we had to wait a year. [He shrugs.] I went years without sex.

[miss_bliss]

I thought you told Matt we would wait. I told Matt we would wait.

Did you do it sleeping next to someone?

[sam_k_roth]

Matt asked that we wait. I agreed so he would stop losing his shit.

No. I was very much alone.

[miss_bliss]

So you want to get married sooner?

You're not alone now. Think you could still outlast me?

[sam_k_roth]

I think we should get married when we want to get married. Not when it makes other people comfortable. So, that is up to you.

I'm a zen fucking master with my yoga and meditation. I'd last sooooooooo much longer than you would.

[miss_bliss]

If it's up to me I want to get married next June. The 11th is a Saturday and it has a nice symmetry.

Challenge accepted.

[sam_k_roth]

You do want to wait that long. Okay. Next June. Why does that have symmetry?

What are the rules, sassy pants?

[miss_bliss]

I don't want a small wedding and that takes time to plan. Plus, late spring is perfect weather wise. Not as rainy. Not yet hot. The only other time of year that would be that ideal would be mid to late September. But 6.11.16 would look a hell of a lot better on invitations than 9.19.15.

Self service is fine, so is teasing as long as it stays above the clothes. The first to either beg or initiate more loses.

[sam_k_roth]

6.11.16 looks good on paper but what does 9.19.15 mean to you?

Prepare to lose, woman.

[miss_bliss]

It's just a Saturday around mid-September.

I don't lose.

[sam_k_roth]

Liar. There is zero symmetry in that date. You are a liar. Tell me now.

You will this time. I plan to play dirty.

[miss_bliss]

That's my point. There is no Saturday in September with symmetry. It would just be reasonably easy to remember.

So do I.

[sam_k_roth]

Why do we need symmetry? Shouldn't it just be the right day?

[miss_bliss]

We don't necessarily need symmetry. I just liked that it was symmetrical.

[sam_k_roth]

If it's important to you, it's important to me.

[miss_bliss]

Sam, you don't seem real keen on a long engagement.

[sam_k_roth]

Sweetheart, I don't care either way as long as it's the right thing for us.

[miss_bliss]

...September 19th isn't just a Saturday. It's the day we met. It's also the last day my heart belonged to myself. The 20th is when I showed up at your house. We kissed and I knew you were rolled and what you were feeling was an illusion but I fell for you anyway. I guess I just couldn't resist those beautiful eyes. I wanted them to look at me like that for real.

When was it real for you? When did you know that it wasn't just my power but me you wanted?

[sam_k_roth]

Seems like a much more important day then June the day with symmetry.

When I found you that time sleeping in the park.

[miss_bliss]

It is but that's in less than 3 months or than a year depending on how you look at it.

When you found me sleeping? Really? Why then?

[sam_k_roth]

I know.

Think it was the first time that I really knew you had feelings about me. Real, deep feelings.

[miss_bliss]

[She frowns.] You fell for me because you knew I had feelings for you?

[sam_k_roth]

Wait...no. That's not how I meant that...I mean it felt real. Like really, real when we talked that day. No bullshit. Just real. Things had been confusing for me, you know? It was just different that day. Like one of those eye opening kind of days.