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nothingelsematters) wrote in muserevival2016-10-28 08:12 pm
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131.7. The Significant Significant Other Meme
INNOCENT Qs:
- How long have you been together? About 18 months now.
- Straight, gay, bi, or other? I'm bi, he's gay.
- What song makes you think of your relationship? Father Figure by George Michael.
- How do you fall asleep together? Wake up? Any daily rituals? I work real early mornings, he works evenings. It depends how tired we both are. I'm up before him.
- How’s your team work? Do you share well? Yes, I always let him play with my toys.
- Are you open about your relationship? How do you feel about public displays of affection? Completely, and I'm cool with them. I like not giving a fuck what others think about my relationship.
- First impression of each other? Was it love at first sight? I nearly came in my pants. It was definitely lust at first sight. Love, we had to grow together first.
- Nicknames? Pet names? Any in-jokes? The standard love or babe. We'd probably punch each other if we called each other bae or boo. Plenty of in-jokes.
- Any tasks always left to one person? Not really. We both hate laundry.
- What annoys your partner the most about you? Would they change it if they could? We don't annoy each other. Frustrate sometimes, yeah, but not annoy.
- What do the like best about your partner? His unique beliefs and his confidence in being himself.
- Do you discuss big issues? Religion? Marriage? Children? Death? Religion's off the cards, we're both atheist. We're already married, we already have a baby. Death will come when it does.
- Do you celebrate holidays? Anniversaries? As much as we can without fucking shit getting in the way. It's been challenging.
- Has there been a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon? There was a wedding, but it was a quickie registry office one. I propsed to him when I was fucking him. He doesn't actually believe in marriage. It's a long story. Honeymoon at the beach, but it was belated.
- What do you do for fun? Do you have a favorite activity together or do they like to switch things up? We switch things up. Most of the stuff we do is child-friendly for our daughter.
- Anything you both dread? Being preached at by religious nutcases.
- What would make you break up? Would it be permanent? Cheating. I'd say permanent, yeah.
- Have you ever felt the need to take a break from each other? Nope.
- What do you fight about? How do you make up? It's mostly me thinking he's kept secrets from me, when really, he's just not wanted to talk about shit. All relationships have a learning curve, and this has been ours.
- Do you share any interests or hobbies? We're both artistic and creative. But his is with makeup, and mine's floristry.
- Do your jobs ever interfere with the relationship? It interferes with time together sometimes, but we don't let that bother our relationship. You have to be clever about it.
- Any doubts about the relationship? There have been along the way on both our parts, but it's part of that learning curve.
- Do you share their feelings, or hold things in? I share about everything, he's more reserved but will share if it's vital.
- Do you like each other's families? That's a complicated situation. I'll say yes, but family isn't always blood related. And blood relations can be the most evil of all.
- Best vacation you took together? Our honeymoon, and recently to London.
- How do you handle disasters or emergencies? Minor injuries? Sickness? Together. That's when we're our strongest. And fuck, have we been through some shit. He takes care of me more than I could ever ask for whenever I need it. I hope I do the same for him.
- Could you manage a long distance relationship? Nope.
- What’s your greatest strength as a couple? Your weakness? Respect and always being a team. Our weakness is probably the ways our pasts affect us sometimes.
- How much would you be willing to sacrifice for the other? Any lines you refuse to cross? I would say I'd give my life, but he wouldn't want me to because of Hols. Anything right up to that, though.
- Who initiated the relationship? Who kissed who first? He did. I was a grieving single father of a newborn, barely making ends meet. I didn't think I was worthy. He was happy to give me anything I needed to be able to test drive us.
- Any special memories? Deciding to commit to each other forever, his surviving being kidnapped and nearly murdered, his adoption of Holly.
- Do you have a special place they like to go to? As cheesy as it sounds, I'm honestly happy anywhere Lew and Hols are.
- Who gets drunk quicker than the other? He doesn't drink, so me.
- Are you comfortable with each other? Anything you have to have you privacy for? 100% comfortable, domesticated, and open with each other. We've seen each other at our worst, so pivacy and dignity are a thing of the past.
- Any regrets as a couple? No, not really.
- What was your first date? He baked me cookies and sweet-talked my address out of me to come see me because I was so exhausted with a newborn.
- Who cooks? We both do, but he's better.
- Who’s the messiest? The cleanest? I'm the messiest, but we're both anal about cleanliness.
- Who fixes the vehicle after a breakdown? Pretty sure we'd just call a mechanic.
- Living space has a leak! Who fixes it? Plumber.
- Does anyone steal the covers? He does, but it's a good excuse to cuddle closer to him.
- Who buys the groceries? We change up.
- What do they order for dessert? He's allergic to dairy, so it's usually sorbet or nothing.
- Are they a swimming pool or beach person? Beach.
- Who knows how to swim? Who doesn’t? We both do.
- Is someone multilingual? Do they try to teach another language to the other? How does it go? I was raised on Cajun French, but I don't use it.
- Modest or open about bodily functions? Open. We have a baby, it's inevitable.
- Any pets? Or plants? No pets, but I love plants. We have plenty.
- Baths or showers? Together or separate? Any bubbles or bubble fights? Baths together is my preference. Bubbles are a must. Mostly, it's showers because of time.
- Can they stand silence? Who talks the most? Who talks the least? We both appreciate silence and down time. I don't know if either of us are huge talkers. We don't need to talk to keep each other company.
- Who stays up late? Who sleeps the most? Does the other have to force them to sleep/wake up? He's more of a night owl than I am. I don't think we force anything on each other, let alone sleep or waking up.
- Who is the highest maintenance? Does the other mind? I'm pretty sure I am, just by default of the troubles I've had in my life, but he'd probably disagree.
- Vacation ideas: who decides them? Where would they go, if anywhere? We decide together, and it's usually tossing the idea around for a bit because of having a baby to think about. We can't just up and take off.
- What is their favourite color, food, drink, and pizza topping? His favourite colour is silver, favourite food is beef stroganoff, his favourite drink is mocha latte made on coconut milk, and chicken and bacon is his favourite pizza topping.
- Quiet and relaxing dates together, or wild partying dates together? Quiet and relaxing. Neither of us are big partiers.
- Who said 'I love you' first? He did, but I followed straight away.
- When was the exact moment you knew you loved them? When he told me he didn't believe in having to tell someone you need them, that it should just be known. And he knew exactly why I needed him.
- Do they have any annoying habits? Do they care about yours? Nope.
- One thing you would want to change for them? The fact he's a cancer survivor, and the fact he suffered so much trauma with the kidnapping, especially with it being my fault.
- One future mutual goal for your relationship? Never stop needing each other.
NOT-SO-INNOCENT Qs:
- Who made the first move? Lew did.
- Did you sleep together on the first date? Yes.
- How often do you have sex, if at all? If everything's on an even keel, once or twice a day.
- Who brings bedroom ideas? Who initiates? He's more of the initiator than I am, probably because I've always been more of a bottom.
- Any kinks you share or clash on? We're a fan of spur of the moment, and a good fuck in the shower.
- Oddest place you've have sex? Balcony in New Orleans when I proposed.
- Favourite positions? Him on top. I fucking love him on my lap.
- Do you prefer on top, or do they? I don't think it's so much a preference, we switch up all the time.
- Favourite erogenous zones? Nipples and perineum.
- Quickest turn ons? Immediate turn offs? Turn ons, guyliner and rimming. Turn offs, rough sex and weird sex toys.
- First to orgasm? Last to orgasm? Who comes the most? Does someone ever end up unfinished? We've pretty much smacked-down a permanent challenge to come together when we can. We're guys, not finishing is rare.
- Favourite romantic gestures during sex/orgasm? I love when he kisses all over my body, and rakes his fingers through my hair.
- Post-sex cuddling or not? Fucking always.
- Who’s loud? Who’s quiet? Does one try to make the other louder/quieter? Depends on the mood. We can be either.
- Lights on or off? Do they look at each other? Or is someone embarrassed? We like the lights on, but it doesn't always play out like that.
- Open or closed relationship? Do they sometimes share? We've been in an open, technically. But not for awhile now.
- Has sex ever caused issues in your relationship? We've had times we both couldn't, and it didn't impact at all.
- One place you want to have sex with them, but haven't yet? In a pool.
- Watch porn together? Make homemade sex tape together? Yes, and yes.
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- How long have you been together? About 18 months now.
- Straight, gay, bi, or other? I'm bi, he's gay.
- What song makes you think of your relationship? Father Figure by George Michael.
- How do you fall asleep together? Wake up? Any daily rituals? I work real early mornings, he works evenings. It depends how tired we both are. I'm up before him.
- How’s your team work? Do you share well? Yes, I always let him play with my toys.
- Are you open about your relationship? How do you feel about public displays of affection? Completely, and I'm cool with them. I like not giving a fuck what others think about my relationship.
- First impression of each other? Was it love at first sight? I nearly came in my pants. It was definitely lust at first sight. Love, we had to grow together first.
- Nicknames? Pet names? Any in-jokes? The standard love or babe. We'd probably punch each other if we called each other bae or boo. Plenty of in-jokes.
- Any tasks always left to one person? Not really. We both hate laundry.
- What annoys your partner the most about you? Would they change it if they could? We don't annoy each other. Frustrate sometimes, yeah, but not annoy.
- What do the like best about your partner? His unique beliefs and his confidence in being himself.
- Do you discuss big issues? Religion? Marriage? Children? Death? Religion's off the cards, we're both atheist. We're already married, we already have a baby. Death will come when it does.
- Do you celebrate holidays? Anniversaries? As much as we can without fucking shit getting in the way. It's been challenging.
- Has there been a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon? There was a wedding, but it was a quickie registry office one. I propsed to him when I was fucking him. He doesn't actually believe in marriage. It's a long story. Honeymoon at the beach, but it was belated.
- What do you do for fun? Do you have a favorite activity together or do they like to switch things up? We switch things up. Most of the stuff we do is child-friendly for our daughter.
- Anything you both dread? Being preached at by religious nutcases.
- What would make you break up? Would it be permanent? Cheating. I'd say permanent, yeah.
- Have you ever felt the need to take a break from each other? Nope.
- What do you fight about? How do you make up? It's mostly me thinking he's kept secrets from me, when really, he's just not wanted to talk about shit. All relationships have a learning curve, and this has been ours.
- Do you share any interests or hobbies? We're both artistic and creative. But his is with makeup, and mine's floristry.
- Do your jobs ever interfere with the relationship? It interferes with time together sometimes, but we don't let that bother our relationship. You have to be clever about it.
- Any doubts about the relationship? There have been along the way on both our parts, but it's part of that learning curve.
- Do you share their feelings, or hold things in? I share about everything, he's more reserved but will share if it's vital.
- Do you like each other's families? That's a complicated situation. I'll say yes, but family isn't always blood related. And blood relations can be the most evil of all.
- Best vacation you took together? Our honeymoon, and recently to London.
- How do you handle disasters or emergencies? Minor injuries? Sickness? Together. That's when we're our strongest. And fuck, have we been through some shit. He takes care of me more than I could ever ask for whenever I need it. I hope I do the same for him.
- Could you manage a long distance relationship? Nope.
- What’s your greatest strength as a couple? Your weakness? Respect and always being a team. Our weakness is probably the ways our pasts affect us sometimes.
- How much would you be willing to sacrifice for the other? Any lines you refuse to cross? I would say I'd give my life, but he wouldn't want me to because of Hols. Anything right up to that, though.
- Who initiated the relationship? Who kissed who first? He did. I was a grieving single father of a newborn, barely making ends meet. I didn't think I was worthy. He was happy to give me anything I needed to be able to test drive us.
- Any special memories? Deciding to commit to each other forever, his surviving being kidnapped and nearly murdered, his adoption of Holly.
- Do you have a special place they like to go to? As cheesy as it sounds, I'm honestly happy anywhere Lew and Hols are.
- Who gets drunk quicker than the other? He doesn't drink, so me.
- Are you comfortable with each other? Anything you have to have you privacy for? 100% comfortable, domesticated, and open with each other. We've seen each other at our worst, so pivacy and dignity are a thing of the past.
- Any regrets as a couple? No, not really.
- What was your first date? He baked me cookies and sweet-talked my address out of me to come see me because I was so exhausted with a newborn.
- Who cooks? We both do, but he's better.
- Who’s the messiest? The cleanest? I'm the messiest, but we're both anal about cleanliness.
- Who fixes the vehicle after a breakdown? Pretty sure we'd just call a mechanic.
- Living space has a leak! Who fixes it? Plumber.
- Does anyone steal the covers? He does, but it's a good excuse to cuddle closer to him.
- Who buys the groceries? We change up.
- What do they order for dessert? He's allergic to dairy, so it's usually sorbet or nothing.
- Are they a swimming pool or beach person? Beach.
- Who knows how to swim? Who doesn’t? We both do.
- Is someone multilingual? Do they try to teach another language to the other? How does it go? I was raised on Cajun French, but I don't use it.
- Modest or open about bodily functions? Open. We have a baby, it's inevitable.
- Any pets? Or plants? No pets, but I love plants. We have plenty.
- Baths or showers? Together or separate? Any bubbles or bubble fights? Baths together is my preference. Bubbles are a must. Mostly, it's showers because of time.
- Can they stand silence? Who talks the most? Who talks the least? We both appreciate silence and down time. I don't know if either of us are huge talkers. We don't need to talk to keep each other company.
- Who stays up late? Who sleeps the most? Does the other have to force them to sleep/wake up? He's more of a night owl than I am. I don't think we force anything on each other, let alone sleep or waking up.
- Who is the highest maintenance? Does the other mind? I'm pretty sure I am, just by default of the troubles I've had in my life, but he'd probably disagree.
- Vacation ideas: who decides them? Where would they go, if anywhere? We decide together, and it's usually tossing the idea around for a bit because of having a baby to think about. We can't just up and take off.
- What is their favourite color, food, drink, and pizza topping? His favourite colour is silver, favourite food is beef stroganoff, his favourite drink is mocha latte made on coconut milk, and chicken and bacon is his favourite pizza topping.
- Quiet and relaxing dates together, or wild partying dates together? Quiet and relaxing. Neither of us are big partiers.
- Who said 'I love you' first? He did, but I followed straight away.
- When was the exact moment you knew you loved them? When he told me he didn't believe in having to tell someone you need them, that it should just be known. And he knew exactly why I needed him.
- Do they have any annoying habits? Do they care about yours? Nope.
- One thing you would want to change for them? The fact he's a cancer survivor, and the fact he suffered so much trauma with the kidnapping, especially with it being my fault.
- One future mutual goal for your relationship? Never stop needing each other.
NOT-SO-INNOCENT Qs:
- Who made the first move? Lew did.
- Did you sleep together on the first date? Yes.
- How often do you have sex, if at all? If everything's on an even keel, once or twice a day.
- Who brings bedroom ideas? Who initiates? He's more of the initiator than I am, probably because I've always been more of a bottom.
- Any kinks you share or clash on? We're a fan of spur of the moment, and a good fuck in the shower.
- Oddest place you've have sex? Balcony in New Orleans when I proposed.
- Favourite positions? Him on top. I fucking love him on my lap.
- Do you prefer on top, or do they? I don't think it's so much a preference, we switch up all the time.
- Favourite erogenous zones? Nipples and perineum.
- Quickest turn ons? Immediate turn offs? Turn ons, guyliner and rimming. Turn offs, rough sex and weird sex toys.
- First to orgasm? Last to orgasm? Who comes the most? Does someone ever end up unfinished? We've pretty much smacked-down a permanent challenge to come together when we can. We're guys, not finishing is rare.
- Favourite romantic gestures during sex/orgasm? I love when he kisses all over my body, and rakes his fingers through my hair.
- Post-sex cuddling or not? Fucking always.
- Who’s loud? Who’s quiet? Does one try to make the other louder/quieter? Depends on the mood. We can be either.
- Lights on or off? Do they look at each other? Or is someone embarrassed? We like the lights on, but it doesn't always play out like that.
- Open or closed relationship? Do they sometimes share? We've been in an open, technically. But not for awhile now.
- Has sex ever caused issues in your relationship? We've had times we both couldn't, and it didn't impact at all.
- One place you want to have sex with them, but haven't yet? In a pool.
- Watch porn together? Make homemade sex tape together? Yes, and yes.
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