095.5 - Ten Things I Love About My Relationship

[miss_bliss]

1. I don't have to hide who am. Sam knows the absolute worst of what I have done and still loves me anyway.
2. We are different but complementary.
3. We are passionate. Being without each other physically hurts and it's not one sided. He fell apart just as badly without me as I did without him.
4. Sam has a way of making every holiday special and about family.
5. He is my family and I am his.
6. We do get jealous over each other but not to the point that we can't joke about epic bromances and running off to Vegas for a quickie wedding with my closest girlfriend.
7. That even though I've never really had a desire to have children and Sam won't push if that never changes, he said that he would be down with starting a family with me.
8. Breakfast in bed is not uncommon in our house and Sam makes a mean cup of coffee.
9. We actively try to help each other with our problems or overcoming fears.
10. The sex. I either had to mention it first or save the best for last though I'm thinking now that it should have been mentioned more than once. I have spent more than half of my life cultivating certain skills but Sam is by far the most selfless lover I have ever had. He has spent endless hours, whole weekends, just exploring me until he learned every moan and whimper, every spot and kink that I have. Well, almost every kink. I like to think there is still a little mystery left to solve but still. His devotion to learning everything about me inspired me to want to do the same thing back. Now, after almost a year, we know each other so well that the sex is phenomenal. Even better than the excitement of when it was new.

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[sam_k_roth]

Speaking of...this hippy rock star is leaving. Yoga in the park.

[miss_bliss]

Mmm Okay. I'll let you go but only if you promise to come right back. I like it when you're all limber.

[sam_k_roth]

Why don't you come get limber and sweaty with me? Maybe you'll catch some hippy cooties.

[miss_bliss]

Useless. I've been vaccinated but I will come so you can stare at my ass in my yoga pants.

[sam_k_roth]

Bullshit. [He says with a laugh as he works his long hair back into a mess of a bun.] You caught my cooties enough to say yes to marrying me. Speaking of...when are we going to start talking wedding? I've seen the stacks of magazines...

[miss_bliss]

I said yes to marrying you because it's only legal way to take ownership of someone and I'm looking to lock this shit down. [Smacks his ass.] Matt got me those but yeah. We should start planning.

[sam_k_roth]

Going to sign my ass instead of the marriage license? [Sam chuckles and shakes his head.] He wants us to wait a year you know?

[miss_bliss]

Don't joke. I might! [She laughs back.] He told me. A year is fine. After the nightmare I went through trying to get and keep a decent venue for my birthday, more time sounds okay. Besides, it will give me time to go even bigger.

[sam_k_roth]

Bigger isn't always better, sweetheart. I'd marry you in shorts and flip flops on the beach.

[miss_bliss]

Well, I suppose we can do it up small. I'll just save the big wedding for my next husband.

[sam_k_roth]

Excuse me, how long did you say you want to go without sex?

[miss_bliss]

I'm sorry. I don't negotiate with terrorists.

[sam_k_roth]

This is the only way you'll learn, baby.

[miss_bliss]

So your plan is to punish me for teasing about finding another man some day but cutting off sex today? Seems a little counterintuitive.

[sam_k_roth]

As if I could actually go through with that. Did you hit your head?

[miss_bliss]

How long do you think you could out? A week? [She saunters over to him and slowly runs her fingers down his chest.] Two weeks?

[sam_k_roth]

A week? No. [He looks down at her fingers and smirks.] I feel challenged.

[miss_bliss]

I'm not one to really deny myself anything but this could be fun. Like a game. Do you remember the night we were together after 6 weeks apart? How hot it was? How sore I was the next day after? Even my throat was sore from the screaming.

WHERE IS THAT THREAD!?

[sam_k_roth]

Yes, I remember. Is this you saying we should hold off having sex until we're married?

[miss_bliss]

Whoa. That is NOT what I said. We don't get married for like a year. A year?! [She stops and thinks about it.] do you think we really could?

[sam_k_roth]

First of all, I was never the one that said we had to wait a year. [He shrugs.] I went years without sex.

[miss_bliss]

I thought you told Matt we would wait. I told Matt we would wait.

Did you do it sleeping next to someone?

[sam_k_roth]

Matt asked that we wait. I agreed so he would stop losing his shit.

No. I was very much alone.

[miss_bliss]

So you want to get married sooner?

You're not alone now. Think you could still outlast me?

[sam_k_roth]

I think we should get married when we want to get married. Not when it makes other people comfortable. So, that is up to you.

I'm a zen fucking master with my yoga and meditation. I'd last sooooooooo much longer than you would.